Reinforcing Values In Children
Tim, a young single dad on another continent, woke up feeling lost and alone. His tween son had made a big mistake, and Tim had raged at him the night before. He’s extremely close to…
9 ways parents can empower a child who has learning issues
If we want to empower kids with learning differences or ADHD, parents and schools need to ensure we’re identifying the right issues. We also need to understand that every challenge comes with built-in strengths, and…
When this 7th grader lost all his friends it took one bold move to evoke their compassion
When this seventh grade boy was shunned for making a mistake, he chose to do something incredibly courageous. His classmates’ reaction blew me away and made all the adults in the room cry. Sean sat…
How to communicate with boys so they don't shut down
I enjoyed presenting at McQuaid Jesuit in New York yesterday. I talked about staying connected with teen sons, and I shared the importance of knowing, honoring and accepting your child for who he is rather…
10 Life Lessons from a Principal Who Led a Middle School for Four Decades
Michael Gordon ran a middle school for 40 years. That’s right, four DECADES. As principal, he got tough kids to soften and overprotective parents to loosen their grip. Under his watch, troublemakers fell into…
10 ways to take the struggle out of homework
There’s nothing worse than an epic battle with kids over homework. Or watching your kids shut down because they feel stuck, frustrated and defeated. With a little creativity, parents can help them overcome barriers to…
How To Talk To Kids About Sex
Here’s my Washington Post video on talking to kids about sex, along with some classic movie clips! Read the full article here in the Washington Post
How to give reserved kids (and adults) a voice
In eighth grade, my social studies teacher asked for a volunteer to define “sagacious.” Atypically, I raised my hand. Ms. F. called on me, surprised to see me participating. But when I gave the correct…
Helping kids (and ourselves) master big emotions
“I need you to spread the cream cheese on my bagel,” my 9-year-old son told me. I shook my head. “No, you don’t. Last I checked, Alex, you have working hands.” He tested my resolve.…
If You Don’t Like How Your Story Ends, You’re Not Done Writing
My 15-year-old son texted me from a small bookstore in Massachusetts. “Can you please come here now?” It was a rainy day, and I had popped into the Starbucks next door. I grabbed my coffee…
